The Hidden Impact of Domestic Violence on Children
Most of us have heard the saying that it takes a village to raise a child. Our children need love, support, safety, and encouragement to thrive. Yet, each year, millions of children around the world witness some form of domestic violence. This violence, occurring between parents or other caregivers, shatters the safety of what should be their sanctuary: home.
Beyond Physical Harm: Emotional and Behavioral Effects
People often think of violence as solely physical, but emotional violence can be just as devastating. Children exposed to domestic violence often feel scared, unsure of who to trust, and confused about family life. This vulnerability can impact them at any stage of development, from birth onward. The effects are far-reaching, influencing their mental health, physical well-being, behavior, and ability to form healthy relationships with others.
Building Safe and Nurturing Homes
The impact of domestic violence on children can be prevented by fostering safe and supportive environments. Exposing children to positive, nurturing relationships and creating violence-free homes are critical steps. Parents and caregivers can make a difference by engaging in their children’s activities, interests, and daily lives. Spending quality time, maintaining consistent routines, and encouraging open expression of feelings help children feel secure. Teaching them about safety—who to speak to and where to go if they feel unsafe—empowers them to seek help when needed.
Breaking the Cycle for a Healthier Future
Ending domestic violence is essential to ensuring a brighter future for our children. By prioritizing their safety and emotional well-being, we can help them grow into confident, healthy individuals. It truly takes a village—parents, caregivers, and communities working together—to protect our children and break the cycle of violence
About the Author
Sheilamarie Racicot, LMFT, is a licensed marriage and family therapist and Manager of Group Services at Palomar Family Counseling Service. With her expertise, she helps individuals and communities break the cycle of domestic violence and foster healthy relationships.