Written By: Dr. Nicole Asencio, LMFT

Part 1:  Accessing Food Help in San Diego

If you’re reading this, you might be experiencing the anxiety, stress, or shame that comes when you’re not sure where your next meal will come from. In, and around, San Diego County, food-insecurity is not a personal failing – it’s a reality for thousands of generous, hardworking people.

We also recognize the government shutdown has affected many folk. Most recently the delays and disruptions in public benefits that so many rely on for stability are also in limbo.

You might also be juggling a full plate in other ways: caring for children, supporting a partner, coping with trauma or overwhelm, managing parenting and work—while also digging for the emotional energy to show up. It’s exhausting.

At Palomar Family Counseling our mission is to foster mental health and resilience for our community. We cannot do that if your basic needs are not met and these are essential to helping people thrive.

This blog is for you. I want you to know: you deserve compassion, dignity and resources – not judgement. I am going to share practical local help + emotional support because the two often go hand-in-hand.

Here are trusted resources local to you (or your loved ones) in the San Diego area. Use them to begin reducing the stress of not having enough food.

Key local food-assistance resources

Food and Nutrition Programs

What you can do today

  • If you feel overwhelmed, call 2-1-1 and say you need “food assistance in San Diego County”.
  • Use the Feeding San Diego map (or San Diego Food Bank map) to find the nearest distribution site (input your ZIP code).
  • If you have children or seniors in your household, ask about programs specifically for them (backpack programs, senior food programs).
  • Consider applying for CalFresh even if you feel uncertain—eligibility criteria vary, and it might be easier than you think.
  • Speak with your therapist about the resources available in your community. At PFCS we have case managers that have created a resource list that you can download.

Why this matters

Hunger doesn’t just mean empty plates. It is tied to stress, anxiety, physical health challenges, parenting strain, and emotional fatigue. One local statistic: in San Diego County, nearly 1 in 7 children live in food-insecure households.
 By accessing help, you’re not failing—you’re taking steps to support yourself and your family.

Nonperishable Food Drive

Palomar Family Counseling Services has launched a nonperishable food drive at our Escondido, Vista, and Fallbrook office locations. If you are able to donate your generous donations will directly help ease food insecurity for those affected.

  • What to Donate: Nonperishable food items such as canned goods, pasta, rice, peanut butter, cereal, baby food, and shelf-stable proteins (protein bars, granola bars, beef jerky, etc.).
  • When to Bring Donations: Monday, November 3 through Friday, November 14, during regular office hours.
  • Where to Drop Off: Any PFCS office!

  • If you prefer to donate funds and have us purchase food items on your behalf, please click the link below.  In the comments box, please note November 2025 Food Drive. 

    Donate Funds to Our Food Drive

 

Need help now? 📞 Call 2-1-1 or PFCS at 760.741.2660.

Download our full resource guide:  North San Diego County Resources